FOREVER...
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She is, simply put, the most famous movie star of all times... She died such a long time ago on the night of August the 5th, 1962. And yet, she is more well known than most public personalities of today. Marilyn is not only a star and a legend but an indelibile icon which has grown into a gigantic myth over the years. And her image is forever imprinted into our collective minds. I mean, who has never heard of Marilyn Monroe?
You may not love her as much as I do or worship her like I tend to but you know who she is and what she looks like. You are also aware of the basic things about her, from her unhappy childhood to her meteoric rise to fame... Just like Elvis Presley is to music, Marilyn is THE criteria on which movie fame is based on... There never was anyone like her and there never will be... She was absolutely unique.
Endlessly copied, veneered and worshipped by many, ridiculed and degraded by some, adored by her public, she is the most beautiful child-woman ever and the ultimate sex goddess of the silver screen. But to me like many of her fans, she is simply the most fascinating woman who ever lived. I own practically every single book and biography written about her (which I've all read on numerous occasions), have seen all her movies, have a few framed pictures of her on display in my house... You name it.
Everything about her was pure femininity and she possessed a child-like innocence no other woman has ever been able to reproduce. I look at her face and see this gorgeous and yet very fragile smile and surprise myself into fantasizing about being the one able to rescue her from her doom. I am not exactly sure why but there is just something about that woman that haunts me deep to the chore. And from the looks of it, I am far from being the only one. In a way, she is like an incandescent flame instantly recognizable by everyone, even in the remotest part of the world.
There is an amazing story I once read about the size of Marilyn's fame, which clearly demonstrate just how well-known she is. In the early 60's, a journalist was exploring a very remote part of Africa and came upon some indigenous which still lived in extreme poverty. Obviously, those people are not exposed to any of our civilized culture. And yet, when the journalist made the indigenous understand that he came from the United States, the indigenous said in his native tongue: "America... Marilyn Monroe, Coca-Cola".
There aren't many stars who can achieve this level of recognition. Elvis Presly, James Dean and Marilyn are most likely the only ones who have succeeded in such epic proportions. She is still seen and heard everywhere: from television segments about her life to magazine covers, all trying to somehow retell her story from another angle... Many of her fans (like me) were not even born at the time of her death. And yet, her estate is still being asked the permission to use her image to sell everything from watches to toilet paper, earning the Monroe estate millions of dollars every year. Fortunately, they only accept quality products but the fact is that her face is instantly recognizable and holds a very powerful marketing quality.
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SIMPLY GORGEOUS...
Why has Marilyn become such an enduring icon of mythic proportions you might wonder? There is the beauty of course. Beauty is like art and a beautiful woman is something so dazzling that I am still completely enthralled by it. Marilyn is not the only woman who I find extremely beautiful and there are many other stars I consider pretty but she is in a category all her own.
Jeri Ryan who played "Seven of Nine" on "Star Trek-Voyager" is in my opinion a very beautiful woman. So is "Kim Basinger" who gives new meaning to the term gorgeous. Marlene Dietrich is also an actress I worship. Greta Garbo has kept me fascinated for a long time and it was said she had the perfect face, completely symmetrical. Louise Brooks also resides in my top list, a silent movie actress not very well-known who redefined acting without even realizing it. All these women are the epitome of beauty to me, all in their own distinctive and unique way.
But in Marilyn's case, she had something more than the average beauty queen. She was not only sensitive but extremely so. Just by looking at a photograph or seeing her for a few seconds through a recorded segment, most people will be instantly stricken by that fragile air of innocence that is so unmistakably hers... But sensitivity is not the only factor that made Marilyn so enduring a force for so long. It is mostly her dark side and her demons which has granted her the kind of fame that could only be described as one of the most lasting phenomenon in the history of show business...
Marilyn was so sensitive that a glance, a look, an expression, a single word or gesture from someone could totally shatter her self-image. She gradually became a drug and alcohol addict constantly trying to come to grips with her insecurities and tame the many demons that plagued her all through her short existence. The pain of living, no matter how much she tried to numb it through substance abuse, was always present in Marilyn's life...
She was charming and brilliant but also, self-absorbed, ruthlessly vile when felt attacked upon, unstable emotionally, moody, extreme in her reactions to any events in her life and capable of the most terrifying and violent fits of anger.... Just like a child. Personally, I feel very close to Marilyn because I share many of her terrors and nightmares. Life for me has always been somewhat terrifying and everyday, it seems like we constantly have to fight for our survival. And by looking into Marilyn's face, we can see some part of ourselves we need to be reminded of...
If you look at the first picture below, you will know exactly why I fell in love with Marilyn Monroe. For me, that particular photograph is the most beautiful ever taken of her. It is by far my favorite picture of Marilyn. First, she is gorgeously breathtaking in it, her hair and face being featured at their very best. But mostly, it is the look in Marilyn's eyes that keeps me fascinated. Marilyn always projected a sort of unique and very touching vulnerability through all her photographs.
But for some reason, this one has caught my attention even more than all the others. She looks sad, yet happy. Contented yet frustrated. I can sense so many different things in those eyes. It's as if Marilyn lived through a multitude of conflictual emotions all at once throughout her life, slowly destroying her. I can see everything she is: the good, the bad and everything in between... And I fell in love with Marilyn even more after experiencing this amazing frozen moment of her existence...
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THAT "FREAKING" LIFE
The darker side of Marilyn has been a constant source of marvel to me. In some strange ways, I really identify with and see myself in her. She was a total insomniac, being plagued with depression and nightmares while feeling afraid of turning "crazy" like her mother who was a schizophrenic. She had to take countless sedatives every night to get to sleep, which she would often mix with alcohol with devastating results. She actually died of Barbiturate overdose which is a powerful sleep agent. I am also an insomniac and for me, falling asleep is never easy.
In the same way she was, I am capable of the most violent rages and tantrums. I pity the poor guy who will ever have the nerve to attack me because I will come out of it alive... He won't. I am, I can admit it to myself now, extremely sensitive which makes me overreact to many things that happen to me. If I feel that someone deliberately puts me down or try to lash out at me in any way, I retaliate with more force than the original attack, hell-bent on protecting myself and destroying the entity I feel has infringed on my rights as a human being.
Yes, I strongly identify with Marilyn and her unstable personality. And as I learned about her life over time, I recall getting more and more enamored with her persona which seemed so fragile it could break under any pressure. Her many struggles and despairs made her all the more human and terribly endearing. And she has the power to come back to life in endless ways just when you thought you had forgotten. Just out of nowhere, her image will stare at you with those unbelievable eyes full of love and sadness.
There is a quote, from an author of one of the countless books written about her, about Marilyn that really hit a chord with me: "Marilyn Monroe is a dream of Norma Jean". In a way, Marilyn Monroe is a fictitious entity that Norma Jean Baker created with her dreams of stardom. She worked hard at it and became a huge star. But after a while, began to suffer from a dichotomy between her real persona and her onscreen perfected" self. Her image, constantly seen in countless papers and movie screens, was a constant reminder of time passing by...
People usually think that she was a "natural", acting like herself in most of her movies. She was a much better actress than we ever gave her credit for and her dumb blond characters were only illusions. The real Marilyn is the kid known as Norma Jean Mortenson Baker, hurt and neglected by countless adult figures in her life, who never really had the ability to grow up and become a real adult woman. She retained the soul of a beautiful child and fortunately for us, her different images were captured through film technology and fixed forever, instantly and endlessly available.
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ENVY
As her fame grew into stratospheric proportions in 1953 and she became more well-known than all her peers, she craved to get respect. We tend to forget it but she was the laughing stock of many of her contemporaries. The press would make fun of her desire to become a more accomplished actress. They would imply that only her looks and body were the reason she was so famous. They would make snide remarks about her and try to put her down, just like many critics do with stars today. The more famous you get, the more exposed to criticism you become.
And as you probably know, fame and fortune stirs up envy big time. Marilyn had to endure constant attacks from people who were jealous of her looks and huge fame. Since she was at a level of fame even other actors and actresses couldn't attain, she became the object of intense resentment and envy. And for someone with a soul as sensitive as Marilyn's, it must have been pure torture.
She had felt rejected very early on as a kid, living in dozens of foster homes because her mother was institutionalized permanently suffering from severe schizophrenia. And because of her extreme sensitivity, she took everything that happened to her a lot harder than most people. As she matured and developed this incredible physical self, she began to get noticed and realized that her looks were an important asset. She first became a model who was very successful quickly and then, through hard work and perseverance, eventually became a working actress.
"I don't care about fame and fortune... I just want to be wonderful" is a quote from her which represents her deep longing to be loved. In our society, beauty is something that is worshipped to the point of obsession especially in women. So, for Marilyn, the way to be "liked" was to be wonderful. Beautiful, gorgeous, breathtakingly dazzling and glamorous. But as we all know, beauty fades with age and Marilyn admitted that one of her obsessions, beginning in her early thirties, was to sit in front of a mirror for hours, scrutinizing every feature of her face, trying to find signs of age. Yes, she was absolutely terrified of aging and it kept getting worse with time.
That is one of the many reasons why her constant craving to get better parts and become a more serious actress was so important to her. She instinctively knew that actresses, especially in the 1950's and early 60's, saw their career come to a dead stop as soon as they turned forty, unless they succeeded in changing their image. So, she had to find a new way to express herself and modify her screen persona to fit the new level of physical maturity that we all have to go through in life.
Sadly, she never had the chance to and died before that promise would ever be fulfilled. "When the past dies, there is mourning but when the future dies, our imagination is propelled to carry it on..." is a quote said about Marilyn that perfectly describes the phenomenon. Marilyn was a trend-setter, way ahead of her time. And the fact that she died before growing old has frozen her image as eternally young and beautiful. But underneath all that glamour, she was also terribly human which is the key to her longevity.
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ACTRESS
I thought I could give you some suggestions if you want to see Marilyn's figure move on the screen. Here are a few of Marilyn's best screen appearances which will give you a new perspective on her, if you are like many people who've never even seen her movies. She is probably the actress most famous for being herself than for portraying somebody else on the screen. I must admit that not all of her movies are good and most of them are only worth watching because she appears in them. But there are a few which still hold well today and worth buying.
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A NEW BEGINNING...
There is a lot of speculation about her death which is also an important factor in perpetuating her legend. Her romantic association with both "John F. Kennedy" and his brother Bobby also added to the myth factor. Did she commit suicide or was she murdered by the Mafia? Those questions give fuel to the legend and will never cease it seems to peak our curiosity. Personally though, I feel it is a lot more important to emphasize on her life and what she accomplished than in the mysterious circumstances of her death...
She was an abandoned little kid who was born so sensitive that any rejection was like a blade through her flesh. She lived in many foster homes, always feeling out of place, unloved and ashamed of being alive. Her only joy was watching movies where the world seemed like a giant fantasy she wanted to become a part of... She suffered through years of rejection by the movie studios until the public, through fan mail, decided that she should become a star.
Then, through a series of uneven movies (some good, others mediocre...), she became Marilyn Monroe, the ultimate Goddess of the silver screen. But Norma Jean was always there, hurt, confused, feeling rejected and abandoned and no amount of fame or money could ever heal that little girl's wounds. Rest assured though that you will live in our hearts and souls forever Marilyn... I only wish you found the peace you craved for all your life.
Goodbye Norma Jean...
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